The Hidden Heroes of Arlington and What We Miss on Memorial Day – Gary ZelinskiUncomfy: Sticking with Moments That Challenge Us • Season 2025, Episode 20
May 21, 2025 • 16m
On this special Memorial Day episode of Uncomfy, host Julie Rose sits down with retired U.S. Air Force Intelligence Officer Gary Zelinski, author of “A Walk Among Heroes: Searching for America’s Better Angels,” to discover the hidden stories buried at Arlington National Cemetery. From boxing legend Joe Louis to Audie Murphy’s unsung wife, Pamela Opal Lee, Zelinski shares the deeply personal journeys that led him to uncover the silent heroes of our nation’s military past—and why he believes the families of service members deserve our honor just as much as the fallen themselves. 
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Episode transcript - https://uncomfypodcastbyu.blogspot.com/2025/05/the-hidden-heroes-of-arlington-and-what.html 
CHAPTERS 
00:00 Introduction 
00:44 Memorial Day and Arlington National Cemetery 
01:13 Intro to Gary Zelinski: A Walk Among Heroes 
01:28 Gary's Personal Connection to Arlington 
03:56 Joe Louis: A Hero Beyond the Ring 
06:51 The Story of Pamela Opal Lee 
09:32 Honoring Military Families 
11:11 Reflections on Memorial Day 
14:44 Conclusion